Do People Secretly Hate You? Probably.

4 thoughts on “Do People Secretly Hate You? Probably.”

  1. I’m wired weird. I just can’t take people not liking me, and that’s probably why I hate confrontations, which leads to me not standing up for myself, and hating myself. It’s all somewhat connected, all because I care what a stranger thinks. Anyway, great post exploring this. I appreciate it!

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    1. You have absolutely described me to a T! I can’t handle people not liking me either, which is why my confrontation skills are zero. On the extremely
      rare occasion that I DO stick up for myself, I get shaky and feel dizzy! I really need to figure it out, because, like you said, it can cause a lot of problems. I hope we both figure out how to be ok with such things! And thank you so much for your kind words and reading my post!

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  2. Good blog.

    I used to have a lot of resentments but over the years, hating people has become way too much work. Most people (even my brother) are not worth hating.

    Because of my childhood and young adulthood, I didn’t think of people as hating me, but I did consider myself unlikeable, unlovable, and (to use the word my Mom used) grotesque. This actually made not being liked a whole lot easier. The tough one was when people liked me. I had no idea what to do with that.😋

    I suppose there are folks out there that do hate me… At this point it’s not my problem. As long as I keep my side of the street clean. Fuck’em.

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    1. You’ve had some unkind people in your past, if I recall correctly. I’m really sorry you had to go through that! But you’ve turned out so wonderfully! I really admire that attitude, of not caring what others think. I so need to figure out how to do that. It would save me so much stress if I could! Also, if people hate you, they’re idiots. You’re pretty damn awesome ;P

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